Theres no reason toapologize, so dont. Im signed up and really looking forward to starting this Bible study! Thank you for such a wonderful opportunity. I am looking forward to the start of this study. I enjoy reading Proverbs 31 email daily and I am looking forward to trying/doing my 1st on line bible studyjust signed up for it! Ive certainly reached a place in my life where I want to say no, theres still a part of me that wonders what that person will think of me for saying no. people are beating down my door to be treasurer but I made the jump and I am stepping down tonight. I loved what Lysa says about intentionality and finding the us in the middle of the rush.. Thanks for this great opportunity! I have a heavenly husband and Father and His love is unconditional. I have signed up for the online bible study & am part of a group too! I hope I win a book although just going through the study will make me a winner!! Ready to go get my book this weekend, but if I won a book that would be even better!!! I have difficulty saying no to my pastor. . Just signed up. Its easier to say "no" when you have a compelling reason that matters. After hearing you share about this on KLOVE, I was trying to help my dear friend see that it is not about being selfish, its about protecting you and what your family needs from you. This is the best course of action when you're offered something you don't want to, like a drink, a cigarette or even drugs. I just signed up & am looking forward to going through this study. I am excited to start. I signed up as soon as I heard about this OBS! Here are a few ways to repeat yourself respectfully: Saying "no" doesnt have to bring on added stress -it should be the other way around. I am excited to start this study. I cant wait to do my first online bible study. Im Going to Answer Your Most Asked Questions Join me on Facebook Live tomorrow. Such an amazing experience! Looking forward to this study! I signed up for the online study and would love a copy of the book! I feel relieved already and we havent even started yet. 2. Yes!! We use cookies to make wikiHow great. To avoid feeling pressured to drink, attend activities that dont involve alcohol. Thank You Lysa TerKeurst for the studies you bring to us. I would love to win your book for the study!! I were to say, While my heart wants to say yes, yes, yes, the reality of my time makes this a no. anybody that knows me would know that theyjust got brushed off. This is my 3rd P31 online study and the 1st time that I am signed up in an OBS small group!! You dont need to feel guilty about saying no because when you have said yes to other things it means you have to say no to things that dont fit in this season of your , I am so pleased to begin this study. Just signed up for the online study. Thats why saying share your thoughts with me can be a good thing to say when he says he feels pressured. I am always trying to be accommodating and this leads to over-extending myself and leaving very little for my family of 5. If you're around friends and do so politely, they will understand and respect you. By the way, I am now on my 3rd time go around with different women for the Unglued May He receive all the honor and glory! I cant say yes to my churchs bible study right now in this season of my life.but I can say YES to an OBS one!! 8. Do you feel unable to speak up when youre uncomfortable? Thank you so much for your wonderful studies, I have enjoyed Made to Crave, and now this will be my second! Im all signed up and stoked to get this book and start going through it! This podcast was born out of my own desperate need to make sure I was actually processing in a healthy and Do you have a relationship in your life where you know something is wrong, but you cant figure out what to do? A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. Thanks. So excited for my very first Online Bible Study to begin! Lily, Thank you, I am signed up and hoping I will win your helpful book. Though I would love to say yes, the reality of my limitations means I must say no this time. Give a witty explanation You refused to Lily. I will have to get the book for her. I love those kind no suggestions- I NEED those suggestions. WebIt might be a phrase you say out loud such as, I wish we took more vacations. This way you can communicate your concern and get help without alerting the person who is pressuring you. I have signed up and Im excited to start this study.. Just saw you this last weekend at women of faith in Anaheim Amazing!!! I have signed up and am so excited for this to start! This GE Aerospace Manager Is Prepared. The above link will give you $50 off your first session - an exclusive offer for Love Connection readers. Thanks for the study. Very excited to read your book and learn how to say yes to the things God wants me to! The advice hits home and I feel like I am reading about myself in the book. I'd rather go shopping," or I think we'd better focus on our finals.". Linda. I know you want your relationship to be perfect. Ronda, I said Yes!! You don't need to be good at math. , Just signed up and would love to win a free copy of the book! Blessings! I am really excited about the webcast tonight. I just signed up! A trillion things could go through your mind. My brain cued all These settings could include coffeehouses, movie theaters, malls, fitness centers or your home. It is so hard for me to say No to friends, volunteer opportunities, business opportunities. I really needed this right now to refocus my life. I have been told for a long time by two of my closest friends that I need to learn to say no. Hi Lysa! However, dont go out of your way to help him. I feel as if you are sitting on my couch with me having a conversation. I already bought the book and have signed up for the study!!! Ive been praying about it today and feel God leading me to do so and telling me that what I will learn with Him will help me in this busy season of raising teens!! 1 I say yes so much when I know i have to say and should say no. We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. Im his sole caregiver and responsible for all the arrangements from here until the end. To know exactly what normal is and what to expect from each other. Or, you might think its normal for you two to spend all your weekends together because youre a couple. I am excited to start the Bible study! Im considering a copy for my mom as a gift, I think it could empower her! With over 24 years of experience, Dr. Rios works with people struggling with psychological symptoms such as anxiety and depression. I signed up for the Bible Study and would love to win the book and share it with my friend! This is a BETA experience. This a study that will speak to every womans heart. Already in Chapter 5 and hoping to finish a first read before the study begins so that I can go deeper during the study. I am so looking forward to what God has in store for us. I have signed up for the study and have the book, but what a gift it would be to give to someone else! Youre already strong enough to tackle social pressure in your life. Now lean in and let me whisper something Im trying desperately to teach myself. He probably doesnt want to get you too involved because it could make him feel guilty. She specializes in medical psychology, weaving together behavioral health programs informed by empowerment theory and trauma treatment. Focus on communication, setting boundaries, making compromises, and being positive. and I know my sister would benefit greatly from is book and study. Ive invited a few friends to sign up. I feel like Im falling apart inside and cannot deal with it on the outside for fear of who I will let down. Its ok. You are an amazing women and wonderful example to us all. Be blessed. Love to know when (and how) to say no and when God should get the biggest Yes!! Dr. Rios uses integrated, evidence-based models to provide support and therapy for people with life-altering medical conditions. God always has perfect timing with these Bible studies- I love them! I already have my book but if I win a copy I will give it to a friend. I have already signed up for Bible Study book and workbook are on order due to arrive tomorrow (17th of Sept) Being a 24/7 caregiver to mother-in-law at age of 95, I can only do online studies Anxiously waiting for study to begin. Just signed up! Try not to sound rude. I love the heart behind this post and the book. I just signed up for The Best Yes online Bible study. Its about two people who choose to be together. I dont know if I am too late for entering for a free book, but I just saw the new Bible study that is about start, and it is definitely something I need to learn more about. Its official I am in! Cant wait for this study to begin! Pay attention to how you feel. Nonalcoholic Alternatives In social settings, adults Signed up! And now, here it is. We're big on not letting you neglect your health, even during your busiest seasons. I signed up yesterday morning! Thank you, and God bless! Just signed up! Signed up! And please understand Im not advocating that we should always say no. Im eager to learn from all of you. It will reassure him and make him feel better about his situation. Get breaking NFL Football News, our in-depth expert analysis, latest rumors and follow your favorite sports, leagues and teams with our live updates. Well. Even just the little blurbs from blogs and radio interviews, as well as the IF Gathering things youve been a part of, have been such a blessing and your heart for doing the best of what God wants is encouraging and challenging all in one! I am signed up for the study and cant wait. Heres what you could say when he feels pressured if. I am very excited for this study. And the more you do it, the better you get at it. I am going to create my own sheet for best advice and utilize that as a response so at least I am being helpful and protective of my time. Just signed up for The Best Yes bible study! Thanks for helping us to get closer to God and each other through the Word of God! I heard you speak at Women of Faith in Kansas City last month which lead me here, to make it a point to give me some time to get closer to God and learn more of what he has in store for me! For example, instead of saying: Thats a stupid idea, try: I dont really like that idea.. Im signed up and I would love to give this book to my daughter to share the online study with me. I couldnt understand why he needed to play as much and I was constantly putting pressure on him to see each other more often and do more activities together. Saying no when they first ask shows that you know how to balance your priorities and tasks and know what you can take on. Thanks Karen Piete. Notice if you say I dont know, I dont care, or it doesnt matter when someone asks what you want. Just dont. Ive gotta find that balance!! I signed up and am excited to read this book. I am looking forward to the Bible study I just signed up for. I have already signed up and so ready for this study to start. Would love to win a copy of your book. So before we walked through the doors that very first Sunday, I told my husband, No matter what happens in here do NOT let me volunteer for anything. I would love to have a copy to share with my accountability partner.that way she can also read this and we can help each other stay accountable. I am excited to open my heart . But theres a key element of it. ACTIVATION STEPS Foods that Stimulate your Pineal Gland (Third Eye/Ajna Chakra): 1. I dont have this book yet but will pick up (if I dont win) before the Bible study begins! I said YES to The Best Yes Bible Study. I signed up and Im Excited for this Study! Help! Thank you for all you do! Who is John Galt? I signed up! So overdue for a bible study. Looking forward to the study! Think about the rules you need in place for your well-being. It reminds me that I am gods Princess doing very little babysteps to calm down and be nicer to my family. But as a former yes-person, I can attest that its only going to end in heartbreak and breakdown. Well see you right back here on my blog. This study is going to be a great tool in taking that understanding to an even deeper level! I signed up for the online study. Even in this case, rudeness is not the best way to go. But still looking forward to this. Thank you. As rude and as difficult as it may seem, youll feel like an achiever a few moments afterwards. Im so excited to learn what God has for me through this study! So many regrets have occurred because I didnt have the guts to just say no. Ive learned that busy people are most often asked to do more, because people think that busy people know how to get things done. Since saying "no" is about protecting your boundaries, your first step is to identify where you need to strengthen them. This couldnt have come at a more pertinent time. Your book was already on my list of want to reads and having a study to go along with it when I get the book will be such a blessing. Ive already started reading the book! Thank you Ms. Lysa, I listened to you at K-Love, and your Prov. My daughter and I are looking forward to our first online Bible study with you! Thank you for sharing your story. We kicked off the night of the Dinner webcast. Already signed up, cant wait to get started. Im in a season right now where I feel like my servants heart is broken. I would love to receive a free copy of your book! Connect with Heatherto learn more abouthow have afulfilling career thats balanced with a real life. And dont think I will regret it this time!! Thanks for the opportunity. In the past Ive wanted to always say yes because Ive been a people pleaser. I signed up for the study and I cannot wait for it to start! If you're offered a cigarette, you can say No thanks, I've had five cigars already," or No thanks, I'd rather smoke my pipe.". WebDo you get pressured into doing things you dont want to do? Ive signed up to join the online Bible Study. Saying no and standing up for yourself can be really hard you might be worried about hurting or upsetting someone else or you might be worried that by saying you dont want to do something your friendships will be affected. Cant wait to dive in and prioritize my time!! I have signed up for the Bible Study. So inspirational. Thank you for this opportunity to study online. And many others too! Exhibitionist & Voyeur 08/11/21: A Family Reunion (4.80): A brother and sister discover each other on July 4. Are you pressuring him to take care of your financial situation? I am signed up and ready to learn!! I signed up the other day and look forward to the Bible Study. I have already purchased my book but would love to win another for my daughters. Its okay to say no if you dont want to or feel uncomfortable. I have found myself over extended many times because I didnt feel right saying no. Thank you so much for your time and effort in putting this Bible Study together and working with everyone; your work is deeply appreciated!! My heart is already filled with love from the group that I cant wait to share it with others!! I am so excited about this. Remember that real friends won't ask you to do anything you don't want to do as a way to prove your courage or friendship. Realizing my weakness and beginning to learn how to make a change in this area is so needed. But, if youre the one putting pressure on him and you know it, its not enough to say the right things. I broke my jaw and my mouth is wired shut for 6 weeks which does not allow me to work because I am on the phone all day and now cannot talk! You might not agree with someone's actions or habits but respecting their decisions will make them respect yours. I am so looking forward to it! Excited to get started on your book and the bible study! You've made Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? If you buy through links on this page, we may earn a small commission. Saying no has been an important part of this, and Im sure theres so much more to learn. Im talking about someone obsessed with playing. I feel completely frazzled because I over do it and I dont say no enough. Now living in Eugene, Oregon, with her husband and cat, she likes vodka-crans and getting caught in the rain. I am excited about this book! I have already signed up. So, here are 10 ways to graciously say no when you feel pressured to say yes: 1. Its a great time for me to refocus my priorities and learn when to say Yes and how to say No graciously! I said that during my last webcast and the questions about how to say no started flooding in through Twitter. I constantly struggle to say no to things and end up running around like a crazy woman!! Whatever you suggest, make sure to be specific. Being supportive is the first thing to do even if you dont know what happened. Praying for all those who are doing this with me! I am hoping this study will allow me to breathe while putting God and my family first. Super excited! Looking forward to it. I have been feeling such a need to be a part of a study, but with work and family demands just havent felt like it was a best yes choice for me to commit to more time outside my home feeling guilty about not being with my children. I think its so healing and convicting ( in a good way) at the same time! Would love an extra copy to bless a friend! I signed up for the online study and would looove to win this book! ", You can also make up an excuse if providing the real explanation can make things awkward: I'm not going, sorry, I already have plans for tonight.". Thanks. Im going to tell you right now that not all experiences are good experiences and taking something on just to take something on, whether or not it will push you in the right direction for your career aspirations, is going to exhaust you and keep you from focusing on the tasks you actually care about. Thank you for a studyalthough Ive never done one online. Don't be confrontational, but make it clear that you're leaving to avoid being pressured: I think I should go now, I don't like to be pressured.. Would LOVE to win a copy of this book! Thank you! This is such a powerful message for women in our rush rush culture. [clickToTweet tweet=How to Say No When Were Pressured to Say Yes' quote=How to Say No When Were Pressured to Say Yes']. So why do we feel so pressured to say yes all the time? Whats he talking about?, you might ask yourself. Thank you for understanding and helping me push through to the finish line. Its usually pretty easy for me to know when to say no, but this gives words of grace during those times. People feel like the system is rigged against them. This year I am vowing to say no more and to really focus on the task that God wants me to do. I signed up for the best yes bible study and cannot wait. He had been out of church for 30 years, me for 10, and since our marriage 2 years ago, have never attended church together. 9. With that in mind it gives me the focus to graciously say no even to close friends, without offering excuses that they try to find their way around. Are there any other ways in which youre putting pressure on him? This is genius. So excited to start your bible study! Im hurting, angry, etc. Im signed up for the study and anxiously awaiting the arrival of my book. This could add even more pressure on him. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Edward Joseph Snowden (born June 21, 1983) is an American and naturalized Russian former computer intelligence consultant who leaked highly classified information from the National Security Agency (NSA) in 2013, when he was an employee and subcontractor. God bless you! Or you could say something genuine, like one of the things on my list, and make him feel better. No matter what stage you are in, there are already too many requests for you. Signed up, and looking forward to what God will reveal through this study! I cant wait for tonight to begin. Just signed up. I signed up and look forward to this study. Winning a copy would allow me to bless a dear friend with her own. Taking his side is not only important for your relationship, but it also serves your purpose. I love everything about it! I am enjoying everything about your book and the five day UnRush Me mini series that you did to prepare us for the wonderful bible study that is starting. Looking forward to spiritually growing through The best Yes . Really need this. When you stand up for your right to say no, you are demanding to be respected. Ive signed up for this Bible Study. WebBut somewhere between the sinking feeling in my heart of how this would affect my relationship with this Aug 3, 2016 - I knew the request was unrealistic. I respect your mental health. Signed-up, love my OBS group and I have almost completed reading The Best Yesfor the second time!!! Yes I AM signed up and looking forward to itMy aunts heard you at Gull Lake Bibe Im in medical school but im definitely making time out for this! Thanks for the ten ways to say No graciously. My friend and I are releasing the junk that clouds our lives that often leads to frustration because of trying to do all and be all. Looking forward to the study, already have my book; hoping to get another for the women Ive invited to join! . Lets just say Ive restarted with new purpose and slowed down to let God use the message for His Glory and purpose in my life. Thanks! Ive signed up and am anxiously awaiting the online study to begin! In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation. I would be sooo blessed to be I am definately signed up. Rather than going up against the whole group to get them the change, maybe you can have a conversation with the ringleader, the one person who is calling most of the shots. Im signed up, what do I do next? Thanks! pull on us throughout the day and its draining and exhausting and Im desperately needing to learn to say no graciously. Im excited about the bible study. I cant wait! Hope my name gets picked for the free book! And #7 in your list above is my favorite. Yep, signed up. I cant wait to read this! Would love to win a copy! I signed up yesterday! II am signed up and so excited to be art of this online study! We are doing this book with our women on church staff. In some situations, just saying no without a lot of arguing and explaining is the best response. Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 116,456 times. Thank you, Lysa, for this opportunity and these lessons. How You Can Have A Happier, More Positive Year! Unfortunately, there are people who get upset because they are used to me always saying yes. I really feel this will the best for me to get me right with my self & my relationship with The Lord! Thank you for the tips, it is so right for me now, and I know it will help other friends too, looking forward to the study xx. Counseling Psychologist (Florida). If you feel pressured or arent sure whether you want to say "no," buy yourself time. Signed up for the study! Looking forward to my first time. Copyright 2020 Lysa TerKeurst. study. And saying yes to everything shows your tenacity and resilience, and adds experience to your resume. This is my very first online study, and the first with Lysa! I am so looking forward to The Best Yes study. However, make the tone of your voice firm and look at your friend straight in the eye to make your message clearer. Im going to tell you right now that not all experiences are good experiences and taking something on just to take something on, whether or not it will push you in the right direction for your career aspirations, is going to exhaust you and keep you from focusing on the tasks you actually care about. Although you might be regarded as a hero in the short-term for saying "yes," it will eventually hurt you. This is going to be such a game changer for me which will in turn be a game changer for my family! Looking forward to my first online bible study and going to bring a few friends along to join me! Every day, I receive dozens of direct messages on social media from women who have been profoundly impacted by the Therapy & Theology podcast. Jeannie Lopez-Smith, I have signed up for your online study! After all, this one of my best yes. 2. I want to buy a house. Cant wait to begin Sept 22!! Its totally up to you whether you feel pressured or not. I am signed up for your online Bible study. Im so excited about starting this study. No spam ever. You can say: You can get to the bottom of this.. You see, one of the main factors that cause people to feel pressured is their expectation of perfection. There is one primary culprit! Once he feels more at ease, hell most likely open up and express his emotions. I am so excited to start this Bible study! And it negatively impacts your work product. Why don't we go to the movies instead? You are a kindred spirit. By that time, I had enabled those I love to the point that it was virtually impossible to make this necessary break in everyones habits. You have no idea what a blessing you have been to me. Those were really great! Where did I say yes when I should have said no? I have signed up for the study and borrowing a copy of the book from my church library. Am I too late to win an ebook? In school online part-time.work full-time and single-parent teen-young-adult children. Bye, now., Ive signed up and cant wait to get started. Thank you very much for you love and dedication for helping others!!! Often, after we say no or turn someone down, we feel a sense of disappointment, and feel as if we have let that person down. Thanks for the opportunity to win this book. Peopled by larger-than-life heroes and villains, charged with towering questions of good and evil, Atlas Shrugged is Ayn Rands magnum opus: a philosophical revolution told in the form of an action thrillern ominated as one of Americas best-loved novels by PBSs The Great American Read. He might even believe that there isnt any way out of his situation. Im so excited to get started next week! . If you havent heard of Relationship Hero before, its a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations. Much like the response to trauma, one person may feel pressured in a particular situation, whereas a different person may feel no pressure at all. Thank you for being such a blessing to me! They werent at a shortage of women so they could be selective about who they wanna be with. Praise God! I know I really struggle with this & need to learn to evaluate my priorities & learn to be able to say no without worrying about pleasing people, especially at work. Jordan Brown is the creator of The Mental Health Update. WebDec 30, 2017 - I knew the request was unrealistic. Youve talked about this. This is why I want to encourage you to try and understand the reasons behind your behavior. Once youve taken action to alleviate the pressure youre under, you need to see what happened. Im so excited to start this online bible study!! Its a lot easier to say yes to something and suffer through it than say no and potentially look unreliable. Ive never done an online Bible study but ready for a wonderful time. Its been so encouraging, thank you for writing practically about boundaries! It can feel like you have no control, but it's important to think about your future, your safety and what a forced marriage would be like for you. Conf; and Ive followed you ever since.this is so timely. Love your positive attitude! Boy do I struggle with saying no should have said it last night! I entered/signed up! I just bought The Best Yes with the study guide and dvd. Ive already shared the best yes with my co-workers. I signed up for this study and I am SOO EXCITED for this! But He who has started a good work in me will complete it! This seemed so appropriate in the season that I am in. However, sometimes we can be pressured to do things against our will. Hi, i signed up for the OBS! Have a wonderful day! I pour into everyone and there is no one to pour into me. Finally, yesterday, my dear husband convinced me yesterday that my own copy of The Best Yes was a purchase we could make, and I bought it! This is a study that is going to touch me deeply I just know it and cant wait to read the book someday, I heard you on klove today, some days I feel so overcommited, that what is really important gets put on the back burner, would live to explore the chapters in your book, I signed up, I forgot to add that on previous post. And it's not your fault. I signed up! This is my first online bible study and cant wait for it to begin! Here are some patterns we observed in our research. Hell embrace it and believe that he has more control over his life. Saw Lisa @ Womens Faith Revival in Philly. I am eager to learn and experience everything that is offered. Sounds like a great study. This is my first time doing one of Proverbs 31 studies. Love the special blogs and signed up to get emails! I am looking forward to your bible study. Things sadly didnt work out between us, but I learned this: Setting boundaries is healthy, it avoids putting pressure on each other and helps understand each other. I just signed up and looking forward to learning more. (Create a standard PDF for instances like this so you only have to type out your advice one time.). Thank you Lisa!!!! When saying no to a friend or changing your mind about something, a good boundary includes being considerate of them, too, and also expressing your feelings as well as your explicit needs, Carroll said. She said, Rather in humility value others above yourself, not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interest of others. The first thing you could do is to ask yourself in what ways youre pressuring him. Yes, I have been signed up for few weeks now:) cant wait to begin! Looking forward to starting.. Bought your book before taking an adventure that of lots of decisions! I know I need to read this book!!! Thank you. #1. SAY THANK YOU: Either at the start or end of your refusal thank the person for approaching you. This was a great devotion today. I am hoping this bible study will help me learn where my gifts are best suited and how to say yes to the things that will be best for His service and no to the things that wont. It will be a relief. Would love to win the book! Saying no is definitely something I need to work on! My husband and I have tried to slim down our commitments in 2014, knowing that some long-term commitments are coming to an end and purposely not adding any more. Here are three examples: SMILE: If you are chatting on text then send a smiley face and if it is in person then simply smile and say NO. I feel like Im serving with a heart full of regret. Im so excited that you have done an online study! I definitely need this. I would love to win your book. I would love to win a copy of your new book! I am currently reading Ungluedgreat book! :) this is a problem I constantly struggle with-especially with extended family..Thks!!:). The heart behind each of these is dead on. This dynamic is popular in relationships and is called the runner-chaser dynamic. :-) I can totally use this study for personal growth and would benefit from reading your book too:-) Im the worse at saying YES to ALOT of things,people,projects etc and either not following though, not being able to finish or have to go back and say no after comitting to saying yes I can/will!! Even if it feels like we are letting others down we are called to listen to Gods voice and use his guidance and not let what others think of us hinder our journey. I appreciate your advice and all you do! This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. So, Ive created this attached document with my best advice. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Donald John Trump was born on June 14, 1946, at Jamaica Hospital in the borough of Queens in New York City, the fourth child of Fred Trump, a Bronx-born real estate developer whose parents were German immigrants, and Mary Anne MacLeod Trump, an immigrant from Scotland.Trump grew up with older siblings Maryanne, Fred Jr., and Elizabeth, and younger brother Robert in the When you disagree, try to say so without putting down the other persons point of view. Thank you! Thank you Lysa for The Best Yes!! While I dont have time for a lunch appointment, Id love to connect for a few minutes over the phone. Ive signed up after seeing my friend Melissa join and am really looking forward to it. I work for my church and find it hard to engulf myself in worship each week because Im thinking about what can be improved in worship or trying to solve anything that might go wrong, being asked questions all the time, etc. Will be my first online study. WebThere were guys who I wanted to be a lot like who seemed to have it all. I have not attended a Bible Study online before and am looking forward to this one! I cant wait to go through this. Exhibitionist & Voyeur 05/03/20: Starting from Scratch Ep. So so excited about this study! So excited to learn from God through Lysa. Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. Amid the pandemic, the already strained system lurched. I signed up! . [Related:7 Things Smart People Do To Avoid Passion Burnout]. This study will no doubt plant many wonderful seeds of freedom in the lives of others! Signed up for the on-line Bible study. You will survive and so will they. I signed up! I also am a pastors wife and really struggle with saying no, because of what people will think and say.. I have signed up and am excited to get going!!! Do you often say "yes" to requests from colleagues and clients when you really want to say "no?". , I already have your book, but if I win, Id like to give a copy to one of my friends! Thank You Lisa for sharing your talent with us, and encouraging us all: The Lord has had me in a heads down position for almost 2 months now focusing on some things that He has not been pleased with in me. Ive been inviting friends like crazy and hopefully even a few of the Pastors wives will join me in this!! I hope I will the book . Show rather than tellthat evokes emotion, inspiration, and exstc A surprisingly rainy day here in Santa Monica as the sun peaks out from the clouds, the streets are quiet as neighbors hide indoors, the birds are only just starting to chirp, and now its cold as the pressure in the air lifts and blows through. You ROCK!!! I have started to evaluate how my decisions will take time away from my family. 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\n<\/p><\/div>"}, 16 Awesome Topics to Talk About with a Girl, 175 Conversation-Starters to Entertain You and Your Friends. You are truly concerned for him and want to see him happy and feel better. Find out in my new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. I have been looking for a study to do this fall and then this arrived. I have signed up cant wait to read the book and participate in the bible study. I am signed up and ready to go! Ive signed up for the Bible Study, super excited! I work at my church and there are so many great things to do that sometimes it is a little overwhelming. My friend already has hers and LOVES it. I signed up. And remember that youre not rejecting them, but instead are upholding your own boundaries and priorities. But Im certainly cheering for your continued success. Not sure if youve already given away the 5 copies yet, but Im leaving a comment anyway! I am so grateful to have come across this today. Thank you for the opportunity to do this type of Bible study. 008: COUNSEL BLUFF (4.67) Piper's interview for School Counsellor goes better than she expected. Sometimes, it really is hard saying No, but I like how you respond in such love and tact. Giving a task back shows the exact opposite. Its not. My mom shared your website and the 10 list with me today. I signed up for the study. I love His church so it is hard to say no. I love your way of connecting with us as women, wives, mothers. Blessings! If this is the case, you can say: Im here for you if you want to talk about it.. I feel they are so important yet I know sometimes I already have a full plate and still say Yes. I am so excited for this Bible Study! Ive been referring to you as my BFF, lol. Thank you. Im excited to begin reading your book with my girlfriend! THANK YOU!!!!!!!! Thanks so much! Im not sure how Im gonna squeeze it all into 1 hour but Im so pleased to share this with them. I am so excited to say I signed up for your online Bible study. Its not something magical that works without making an effort. Something went wrong while submitting the form. I have signed up and am so looking forward to this study! Focus on intimacy and building a stronger bond. 5. This book is coming at the right time for me. This is an area that my boss tells me that I really struggle with. I joined the Bible study it will be my first one and Im very excited to be apart of this! Nice read, while I think you we need to say NO more than we say YES to 3rd party request, I strongly disagree that there is a need to explain the NO. I am starting the bible study on Monday, this is my first time ever doing anything like this, I am excited!! Great post. Heard you for a bit on K-Love this morning. I often feel I am fighting against so much opposition I am exhausted. Ive just signed up for the free online Best Yes Bible Study. Thank you for offering it online so that those of us who find it impossible to commit to an established study in a church or small group, meeting at a defined time, can participate too! Signed up and so excited to see what God has in store for me over the next six weeks! I am so excited for this study and have signed up and have the book ready and waiting on my Kindle. God is calling me to step down from some of my commitments so that I can pursue writing, as well as to honor the Sabbath and rest. I am one of those overcommitted people Maybe I will win one of the five books ! My first OBS. Even in my family. The book I was reading is probably called unglued? Thanks for the encouragement! But as a former yes-person, I can attest that its only going to end in. Im signed up!! Because youll be finishing them to get them done and not to do them well, your quality of works suffers and the odds of you impressing the higher ups will decline. People described the deep guilt they experience when they say no. My mother died recently and I havent taken the time to fully grieve that loss and I need to say no to things that arent allowing me to take care of myself and my family and find more joy in my life. We just moved to a new ministry and Im taking a break from all leadership roles for a few months. Prevent future breakdowns by subscribing to the No Philosophy today! This is something I struggle with. I am a habitual people pleaser so I am always saying YES, even when I really dont have the time. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience. Ready to learn how to dump the baggage of guilty feelings when I actually do respond to good things with a no. I hope notthis would be great! I am all signed up. I am a pastors wife, and theres not too many ladies I can reach out to. I have just ordered my book and cannot wait to start reading it. Thank you for the opportunity to win your book. I so appreciate you asking me, but I must be brave and decline this opportunity. Looking forward to the new experience. So excited about the study. Looking forward to doing this bible study! The place where twenty-something's can get answers about growing up and navigating the real world. And please mark your calendar the final The Best Yes webcast is Monday, September 22 at 8PM EST. Lets say you asked him what or who is pressuring him and he told you that you are the one pressuring him. Lets GO! I usually lead Bible Studies at our church but decided it was time for me to be in one instead of leading it. I am signed up & cant wait to get started . I signed up for the Bible study. 6. You are right, my heart screams yes yes yes. Now waiting to learn some new habits in love. Thank you and thank god. WebCatch yourself, and say: Oh, sorry go ahead! and let the other person finish. Is your plan a translation to german? Then youre human. Each year, hundreds of thousands of workers churn through a vast mechanism that hires and monitors, disciplines and fires. Im so pumped about this study!!! I ordered my book and signs up for your OBS for The Best Yes! I signed up! I am so excited about this study. YaY! Just tell him that you understand and that you should take some time to cool off. Required fields are marked *. Hey!! Although saying yes seems like the easiest option, growing up also means knowing who you are and what you want to do rather than passively imitating your peers. I am sure to pass these along to good friends! This can happen especially among teenagers: saying yes to something seems to be the easier way to fit in, even when you don't feel like doing what you're asked to. Also what do I do when I say no when I should & have to say yes. Thank you for your talent, teaching and inspiration!! I have always had a big heart in doing everybody elses ideas and always saying yes that I am coming to realize I need to say no and find my happiness and my purpose not just an good idea project from others. Im signed up, got the book at the ready and cannot wait to get started. I didnt sign up today, but I did sign up. I am honored by your request but Im in a season of refocusing my priorities and have committed not to add anything 3. I am signed up. NO is not in my vocabulary; however, I get burnt out and feel under appreciated. Favorite Snow and Snowmen Stories to Celebrate the Joys of Winter. WebBelow is a list of activities you can take to develop your pineal gland: STEP 1 Prepare your Environment for Pineal Gland (Third Eye/Ajna Chakra) Activation. Now that I dont work in the public workforce because of health conditions, I find myself trying to do things. So excited and look forward to this bible study! I signed up for the online Bible study! I signed up for the Bible study. I signed up! I am ready to exchange my best no for a Best Yesnot only to others but to Jesus. If you come up with fun ideas, others will look for you when they want to have a good time and follow your lead, rather than the opposite. By doing this study online, I am able to say yes to more time in the Word and less time in my car. Give a reason Signed up! If youre unsure, youll have to ask him. Thanks! It might be to make someone else happy or to fit in with a And yes!! All signed up and ready to find my Best Yes! I am so excited for this bible study! Oops! Can wait to share and learn from you and the on-line group study. For example: No thanks, I told you I don't drink.". Get breaking NBA Basketball News, our in-depth expert analysis, latest rumors and follow your favorite sports, leagues and teams with our live updates. I am signed up still currently reading Made to Crave and I honestly feel like we have kindred spirits! Im signed up and super pumped. Im so excited to start this new Bible study, especially after having this coming weekend to go to The Cove and rejuvenate. I have struggled for years that when I say NO then I beat myself up for turning someone down. Be prepared to tell people no. I am so incredibly excited (and absolutely anxious at the same time!) I know that many of us are making best yes choices between two and three good assignments that God does have a person in mind for and they may need courage to say yes or they may just need to follow His lead. When he is pressured, he might be very nervous about everything thats going on. I would love a copy of the book . See world news photos and videos at ABCNews.com Thank you for shedding some balanced light on this topic. Signed up for the study and have the book (have already read it and love it!) Cant wait to start the new study. Im looking forward to this study and Im excited about what God is teaching me through this process! I am so ready for this study! I didnt sign up today, but I did sign up and Im excited. I am registered and cant wait! I am so excited for this study to begin! for a board of directors or C.E.O. Then, I started reading. This is a beautiful thought because of what Paul says (give cheerfully) and because of what he doesnt say (give a certain amount). I have signed up for the study, then received your challenge to invite someone. i already bought the book. Already signed up and have my book, but I would love to give it to a friend that is running a VERY tight budget. Thank you for sharing. Signed up for the study! I have signed up for this and I cant wait. I appreciate women like you and your wisdom. I became so despondent with the overwhelming needs of others that I totally lost sight of me. So excited to see what God is going to reveal through another amazing OBS! VERY interested in reading this book and sharing it with my mom and sisters! A relationship is not a well-thought-out scheme where you do everything perfectly. I am currently in the process of moving as a singe mom because my earthly husband left my home. A good way to do this is by exaggerating the consequences of the action. Im signed up and I cant wait to start! Hope I win! WebDec 30, 2017 - I knew the request was unrealistic. I am so excited to stay this online study! So many things important things! #blessed . Thank you!! So it will be great to win a copy! I am SO excited to learn how to give my best yes! It's not okay for friends to pressure you like this. I feel so guilty if I dont say yes. Looking forward to the read as yes seems to be my favorite word when in reality it puts so much stress upon me. Im all signed up, got my book, my small group and ready to get going! So excited to see an opportunity to do this! Hi Lysa!!! Self-care means taking the time to do things that bring you joy or relaxation. Im signed up, Lysa, and can hardly wait! 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